The Ultimate Guide

Including children at your wedding

The Ultimate Guide

Including children at your wedding

Your wedding day is the ultimate celebration of love and union, a moment cherished forever. When planning this special day, deciding whether to include children can be a delightful yet challenging consideration. Here’s how to plan with little guests in mind.

Give your Guests Advance Notice

Notify guests well in advance through save-the-dates or invitations about your decision. This gives parents ample time to arrange childcare. Additionally, allow for flexible RSVP options for parents. Plans can change in the lives of busy families, allowing some flexibility on their final decision to bring kiddos or not, will make planning easier for you while valuing your guests needs.

Provide Alternatives for Parents

If you decide against having children at your pre-events, wedding ceremony or your reception  consider these thoughtful alternatives to accommodate parents:

Childcare Services: Offer information or recommendations for local childcare services, babysitters, or daycare facilities near the venue.

Separate Kids’ Event: Host a separate kids’ party or provide a designated area at the venue with activities, games, and supervision. This allows parents to enjoy the wedding while knowing their children are entertained. Also, this allows parents the opportunity to visit with their children in between adult-only activities.

Create Lasting Memories

Weddings are not just about the adults; they are about creating cherished memories with loved ones – including children for many of you. For several couples, including their young family members in traditional rituals and ceremonies is incredibly important. Incorporating your closest family, instead of all children at your event may feel like a better fit for you.

Final thoughts

Ultimately, the decision to have children at your wedding depends on your preferences, the style of your celebrations, and your relationship with your guests. Whether you choose to include children or not, communicating your decision clearly and thoughtfully is key to ensuring a smooth and enjoyable wedding day for everyone involved. Remember, your wedding is a reflection of your love story, and whichever path you choose, it should feel authentic and true to your vision. Cheers to a beautiful celebration ahead! 

 

All photos in this article are the work of Marlies Hartmann.